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An "unemployed" Existence is a Worse Negation of Life than Death itself

August 03, 2019 | Meer Abass

The deleterious effect of unemployment has seen many become walking corpses. Their best efforts are rewarded with rejection but they hang up to hope in the face of hopelessness. Being unemployed have become an albatross too heavy to carry. An unemployed person in some aspect has become an object to be helped and sometimes ridiculed. The education of many have been called to question due to this syndrome. When a man has no job in spite of his best efforts, even some of his close friends begin to doubt his education. The season of hardship has few friends and the suffering on the land make helping a scarce commodity.
Having laboured to gain a degree and even a higher one, there is no guarantee that there will a job after doctors. Friends who by divine Providence have got something treat you with disdain. The more one last in the unemployment market the more the feeling that one has probably made a mistake by going to school.
"Anyone who has lived in an area with high unemployment knows how it erodes social bonds, lowers the resilience of the unemployed and their families, and damages the prospects of the next generation."
Among family members the same scenario plays out. Parents who have emptied their lean purses into your brain expect you to relieve them of the burden of caring for the younger ones. You are overtaking in the family ladder as your younger ones whose menial jobs sustains the family assume headship. What can one do without money these days? You would have attended many interview sessions but to no avail. You return from each one with pain in your heart for your failure to fend for yourself and family.
When one is unemployed, he is literally dead; anywhere one goes the feeling of disappointment appears in the horizon. You can't contribute anything among your friends and those who contribute something remind you of your inability to do so. Gone is the era where some contribute money and others ideas and knowledge. No matter how beautiful your idea seems, it won't be taken. What did you contribute is always the annoying question. Some without the fear of God will tell you if you want to remain an unemployed person all your life as if you enjoy being one.
When one goes for an interview, those you are better than in all sphere will mock you simply because they have a job and you have none.
When your landlord appears for rent you are helpless. You may have been accommodated by a friend who is also facing the harsh reality of life but you want to help out but can't. The visit of landlords can be annoying as embarrassing if resources are not available to upset bills. An unemployed person sometimes seem like a cursed person. During his time of job search and being accommodated by others, he can be exposed to all manner of things.
Being unemployed is not crime and should not be punishable by mockery and ridicule. It is a phase that all genuine persons seeking jobs will pass. God would not have allowed you to go through all the pains of academic pursuit to end up a laughing stock. The delay in getting married due to lack of a job can be disappointing but when a man losses hope he is finished.
Those who have jobs will not keep them forever and neither will you remain unemployed all your life. To everything in life there is a season says the holy book
Do not let the harsh treatment you received during this period stand on your way to helping people when the chains of unemployment would have been broken. Those same people who taught being unemployed was a curse would come and seek your help. Help them but let them know that everyman's morning start the time he wakes up. When morning arrives even in the afternoon, reclaim your headship of the family and thank your younger ones for holding brief while you were away. Assure your parents that their investment on you will pay the highest dividend. Repair the broken family bond and thank God for letting you know true friends..
Unemployment is an atom bomb our nation is battling with. Parents spend millions to educate their wards yet they come out unemployed even after gaining all the necessary training..

Author is a Assistant professor, a columnist and an Author.


Email:-----meerabas32@gmail.com

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An "unemployed" Existence is a Worse Negation of Life than Death itself

August 03, 2019 | Meer Abass

The deleterious effect of unemployment has seen many become walking corpses. Their best efforts are rewarded with rejection but they hang up to hope in the face of hopelessness. Being unemployed have become an albatross too heavy to carry. An unemployed person in some aspect has become an object to be helped and sometimes ridiculed. The education of many have been called to question due to this syndrome. When a man has no job in spite of his best efforts, even some of his close friends begin to doubt his education. The season of hardship has few friends and the suffering on the land make helping a scarce commodity.
Having laboured to gain a degree and even a higher one, there is no guarantee that there will a job after doctors. Friends who by divine Providence have got something treat you with disdain. The more one last in the unemployment market the more the feeling that one has probably made a mistake by going to school.
"Anyone who has lived in an area with high unemployment knows how it erodes social bonds, lowers the resilience of the unemployed and their families, and damages the prospects of the next generation."
Among family members the same scenario plays out. Parents who have emptied their lean purses into your brain expect you to relieve them of the burden of caring for the younger ones. You are overtaking in the family ladder as your younger ones whose menial jobs sustains the family assume headship. What can one do without money these days? You would have attended many interview sessions but to no avail. You return from each one with pain in your heart for your failure to fend for yourself and family.
When one is unemployed, he is literally dead; anywhere one goes the feeling of disappointment appears in the horizon. You can't contribute anything among your friends and those who contribute something remind you of your inability to do so. Gone is the era where some contribute money and others ideas and knowledge. No matter how beautiful your idea seems, it won't be taken. What did you contribute is always the annoying question. Some without the fear of God will tell you if you want to remain an unemployed person all your life as if you enjoy being one.
When one goes for an interview, those you are better than in all sphere will mock you simply because they have a job and you have none.
When your landlord appears for rent you are helpless. You may have been accommodated by a friend who is also facing the harsh reality of life but you want to help out but can't. The visit of landlords can be annoying as embarrassing if resources are not available to upset bills. An unemployed person sometimes seem like a cursed person. During his time of job search and being accommodated by others, he can be exposed to all manner of things.
Being unemployed is not crime and should not be punishable by mockery and ridicule. It is a phase that all genuine persons seeking jobs will pass. God would not have allowed you to go through all the pains of academic pursuit to end up a laughing stock. The delay in getting married due to lack of a job can be disappointing but when a man losses hope he is finished.
Those who have jobs will not keep them forever and neither will you remain unemployed all your life. To everything in life there is a season says the holy book
Do not let the harsh treatment you received during this period stand on your way to helping people when the chains of unemployment would have been broken. Those same people who taught being unemployed was a curse would come and seek your help. Help them but let them know that everyman's morning start the time he wakes up. When morning arrives even in the afternoon, reclaim your headship of the family and thank your younger ones for holding brief while you were away. Assure your parents that their investment on you will pay the highest dividend. Repair the broken family bond and thank God for letting you know true friends..
Unemployment is an atom bomb our nation is battling with. Parents spend millions to educate their wards yet they come out unemployed even after gaining all the necessary training..

Author is a Assistant professor, a columnist and an Author.


Email:-----meerabas32@gmail.com


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