Mother’s love needs to be given unconditionally to establish trust and a firm foundation of emotional intimacy in a child’s life. As a universal fact, mother’s penance creates a good human being. Her affection fills a child with human values and empathy. A mother is not an individual or a personality, but a quality. It is often said that lords are made according to the nature of their devotees. Similarly, we experience our mothers and their motherhood according to our own nature and mindset.

Mother is not just any other word in the dictionary rather it encompasses a whole range of emotions, love, patience, trust and a lot more. Across the world, irrespective of country or region, children have a special affection for their mothers. A mother not only gives birth to her children, but also shapes their mind, their personality, and their self-confidence. And while doing so, mothers selflessly sacrifice their own personal needs and aspirations.
Mothers love shapes cultures and individuals. While most mothers know that their love and emotionally availability are vital to their child’s well being, many of us do not understand the profound and long lasting impact we have in developing our young child’s brains, teaching them first lessons of love, shaping their consciences. You and I need to be willing to look inside our own experiences to identify any places we may still be affected by our releationship with our own mother. We can begin that journey by simply being willing to search our hearts and better understand ourselves.
The moment a child takes birth, the mother is born as well. When a child gets a sense, it looks up at its mother and starts to follow her movements. The mind of a child is generally regarded very sharp, so it copies the activities of the mother eagerly. Mother takes all the care of her kid from all points like health, dress, diet, entertainment, education, sports, and development of competitive aptitude. The mother attracts the kid through love and affection.
There is an extraordinary job the mother does in influencing the kid. The mother develops her character through her optimal deeds. She steps back little by little and sets the children free. The foundation laid by the mother through affection, persistence, discipline, direction, and tears permits child to cruise upon in his ocean. It is the mother, who shapes the kid, to become a noble man through her great, insightful and elegant activities.
Sometimes the mother uses specific hard measures to discipline and teach valuable lessons to her kid. She might be very hard and harsh, as it seems, but deep inside, she is filled with such soft and kind heart that she weeps and oozes tears with that of her child. All that harshness doesn’t come in any anonymity to her child but with an only intension that her child may stay aloof from the indecent acts and may turn a noble person.
If I try to describe my mother, the words may fall short. My mother was an epitome of love, so are all mothers. She made available everything to me which even I don’t deserve. She cared and love, empathy and dream, affection and aspiration, kindness and generosity, and innumerable others attributes she had
The words ooze out of my heart for my beloved mother who just some moths before left for heavenly abode, left a great and unfilled void in my and our life. The write-up is particularly dedicated to her motherhood and the affection she always granted upon me. She borne me and nourished me, gave me innumerable good deeds to be practiced upon, the kindness and generosity to be conferred upon the people and most importantly her shade whenever I feel distressed. But she left so early, shook me inside, left a void to remain unfulfilled and a great solace of agony. I wish I could hug her once again for ever, I wish I could listen her soothing voice, I wish I could make her smile ever again, but as destiny has its say, I wish I meet her in hereafter and get her motherhood again.
May Allah bestow her highest place of Jannah (Paradise)… Allahuma Ameen

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