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Awantipoora Incident , Shame for the Society

The incidents should be sealed before it will engluf the whole society

September 22, 2023 | Er.Ishfaq Khaliq

Marriage there were talks that the groom was doing important work for his studies and he was in the university there are many platforms were different reasons and answers were put forward for the situation the reasons were mainly the allegations on the two families but no one touched the grass route level and basic funda behind this there are numerous reasons behind such incidents and the Awantipoora incident is not the first one of its kind there are numerous incidents of such level in valley which are having no attention or social media coverage.

Human beings is made of mistakes and while a man lives his life he sometimes makes some blunders it is said that error by human and these errors can be destructive times the respect of man is totally lost and also it can take the life of the man so while doing some harsh step think narrowly before it the most suitable reasons as per the versed opinions are as following:
1. Money and Educational Degrees have given many people an arrogant nature in epic proportions. So much so that it has become overtly cool to indulge in pompous behaviour and show-offs. Due to this society's expectations have considerably risen.
2. More and more people are becoming financially independent and don't rely on each other or their fathers, husband or family for survival. Even if kids are involved, women are now realising that they too can earn for the family. With this financial independence comes a stronger sense of self-confidence and the ability to walk out of a marriage. Well, I am not criticizing this point but I am just stating one of the reasons for the rising breakdown of marriage in Society.
3. long-term couples were generally prompted to break down the marriage by very serious issues, with infidelity and a lack of intimacy causing most breakdowns of marriages once a couple had been married for three or more years. so as the couple is hitched tie the knot of marriage within a year or if possible before the year as well.do it as soon as possible.
4. The extramarital affairs before the marriage are also the prime reasons for the breakdown of marriages.
5. The demons of dowry are drowning human society and are the most common factor in the breakdown of marriages as the marriage date comes closer the demons of dowry are presented and the families are pressurised for the huge dowry as a result the only way to resolve the issue is to break the marriage.
6. The ill-minded society has given rise to false propaganda and allegations against each other the base of the propaganda exists no were and as a result of misconception the families quarrel with each other and hence the marriages break down.
Society has to and must change the ill mindset and the weak mindset where the confusions are created mainly on small points which do exist and which create trouble for marriages and such weak-minded people who listen to such things are seeing only one option to break the marriage so that they may not suffer further such things should be at the peak when there will be no stone unturned to resolve the issues between the families.


Email:---------------------------ratherishfaqcivilbhcet@gmail.com

Awantipoora Incident , Shame for the Society

The incidents should be sealed before it will engluf the whole society

September 22, 2023 | Er.Ishfaq Khaliq

Marriage there were talks that the groom was doing important work for his studies and he was in the university there are many platforms were different reasons and answers were put forward for the situation the reasons were mainly the allegations on the two families but no one touched the grass route level and basic funda behind this there are numerous reasons behind such incidents and the Awantipoora incident is not the first one of its kind there are numerous incidents of such level in valley which are having no attention or social media coverage.

Human beings is made of mistakes and while a man lives his life he sometimes makes some blunders it is said that error by human and these errors can be destructive times the respect of man is totally lost and also it can take the life of the man so while doing some harsh step think narrowly before it the most suitable reasons as per the versed opinions are as following:
1. Money and Educational Degrees have given many people an arrogant nature in epic proportions. So much so that it has become overtly cool to indulge in pompous behaviour and show-offs. Due to this society's expectations have considerably risen.
2. More and more people are becoming financially independent and don't rely on each other or their fathers, husband or family for survival. Even if kids are involved, women are now realising that they too can earn for the family. With this financial independence comes a stronger sense of self-confidence and the ability to walk out of a marriage. Well, I am not criticizing this point but I am just stating one of the reasons for the rising breakdown of marriage in Society.
3. long-term couples were generally prompted to break down the marriage by very serious issues, with infidelity and a lack of intimacy causing most breakdowns of marriages once a couple had been married for three or more years. so as the couple is hitched tie the knot of marriage within a year or if possible before the year as well.do it as soon as possible.
4. The extramarital affairs before the marriage are also the prime reasons for the breakdown of marriages.
5. The demons of dowry are drowning human society and are the most common factor in the breakdown of marriages as the marriage date comes closer the demons of dowry are presented and the families are pressurised for the huge dowry as a result the only way to resolve the issue is to break the marriage.
6. The ill-minded society has given rise to false propaganda and allegations against each other the base of the propaganda exists no were and as a result of misconception the families quarrel with each other and hence the marriages break down.
Society has to and must change the ill mindset and the weak mindset where the confusions are created mainly on small points which do exist and which create trouble for marriages and such weak-minded people who listen to such things are seeing only one option to break the marriage so that they may not suffer further such things should be at the peak when there will be no stone unturned to resolve the issues between the families.


Email:---------------------------ratherishfaqcivilbhcet@gmail.com


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