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Screaming Her Silence

May 15, 2019 | Bazila Manzoor Dar

She A 'daughter' to one, A 'sister' to other, A 'wife' to someone, A 'mother' to all, where is the WOMAN? Does she exist? Has anyone seen her? “Be submissive girl, here is your father. You should be respectful".
“Go out girl. Your brother is coming show some respect”.
“This is not your dad’s playhouse be in your LIMITS you are a wife”.
“You don’t know anything mother you are so old school”.
Respectful, obedient, submissive, limits, what am I? Where is my existence?
A daughter, a sister, a wife, a mother, BUT Where is the WOMAN? She screamed!
Her first breath a burden to all. Starts her life obeying father, performing duties to her brother till she reaches the age of marriage just to shift her duties towards the husband and finally reaches the age of motherhood to care for her children and this caring ends up with her last breath. From first breath to her last has she ever realized what she was. Where is the stage which takes her to realization of being a WOMAN Where?
Was she created for this only or created to maintain continuity of species. Has anyone ever wondered what world be like without them.
“She has a right on her husband’s home, that will be her real home”
“Go and authorize your dad’s property that belongs to you, not ours”

She doesn’t owe a home neither here nor there

Is this what she deserves? She has sacrificed her childhood ,her happiness ,her freedom of life, her youth , her everything for you , The fathers ,brothers husbands and sons of the society , What you give her “your name” , a shelter?
is it enough for her. Is it worthy compensation for her sacrifice of life. Has anyone ever heard the word RESPECT, this is what she demands. Is anyone ready to give her what she demands?
You indeed are not, just because of your narrow mindedness because in order to be a man u need to dominate and overpower a woman. Instead of what she deserves or demands you are always in a race to shatter her inner esteem. We live in a society where our people chant loud slogans of women empowerment, women’s rights , and same people take forefront in domestically violating them ,molesting them, we live in a society where a father could not hold himself from incestuous relationship with a minor daughter. We are the future of valley, were a lady has to think thousand times before boarding a public bus while the monsters and encroachers are desperately waiting for her to board it.
Our women folk is not safe anywhere, not in the houses, not in schools, not in colleges, not in public places, not in workplaces. Ours is the society in which even a girl of 3years is not safe anymore, she is not seen as a child anymore but a GIRL. She is been assaulted physically at that age when she even doesn’t know how the speak ,she doesn’t walk properly yet. She has not yet seen the world. She has just started to breathe in this choked world.
Where are those people who consider outfits a reason of such incidents?
What was the fault of a 3 year old kid?
Why is our so called society silent on this?
Where do there people come from who do such activities and those who shield them?
This is a shame for society.
Where is the conscience of people, instead of respecting her, protecting her you reward her with molestation. Is this what we call women empowerment?
“Remember O men you are the protectors of women” [Holy Quran]
O men, remember you are disrespecting that woman in whose name almighty has dedicated a chapter in the holy book “Quran”, “Surah Nissa”, You are molesting the same women underneath whose feet lies the key to paradise. She is the same woman who brought you this world, What do you reward her with?
What you find, what you ask
You’re a girl it’s not your task
Bound to others you ought to live
You belong to nowhere, you don’t owe a hive
You are the need of all, yet nobody needs you
Seek your place, and try to be real you
You the key to paradise, heaven beneath your feet
Respect your dignity and let others respect too”
She is not a commodity whom you can possess, she is not pleasurable stuff, she is not a slave, she is not a caretaker, she is not a burden , she is the peace of soul , the aroma of flowers , she is the light of paradise ,that enlightens your life.
Post graduate department of English University of Kashmir
Email:------darbaxila@gmail.com

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Screaming Her Silence

May 15, 2019 | Bazila Manzoor Dar

She A 'daughter' to one, A 'sister' to other, A 'wife' to someone, A 'mother' to all, where is the WOMAN? Does she exist? Has anyone seen her? “Be submissive girl, here is your father. You should be respectful".
“Go out girl. Your brother is coming show some respect”.
“This is not your dad’s playhouse be in your LIMITS you are a wife”.
“You don’t know anything mother you are so old school”.
Respectful, obedient, submissive, limits, what am I? Where is my existence?
A daughter, a sister, a wife, a mother, BUT Where is the WOMAN? She screamed!
Her first breath a burden to all. Starts her life obeying father, performing duties to her brother till she reaches the age of marriage just to shift her duties towards the husband and finally reaches the age of motherhood to care for her children and this caring ends up with her last breath. From first breath to her last has she ever realized what she was. Where is the stage which takes her to realization of being a WOMAN Where?
Was she created for this only or created to maintain continuity of species. Has anyone ever wondered what world be like without them.
“She has a right on her husband’s home, that will be her real home”
“Go and authorize your dad’s property that belongs to you, not ours”

She doesn’t owe a home neither here nor there

Is this what she deserves? She has sacrificed her childhood ,her happiness ,her freedom of life, her youth , her everything for you , The fathers ,brothers husbands and sons of the society , What you give her “your name” , a shelter?
is it enough for her. Is it worthy compensation for her sacrifice of life. Has anyone ever heard the word RESPECT, this is what she demands. Is anyone ready to give her what she demands?
You indeed are not, just because of your narrow mindedness because in order to be a man u need to dominate and overpower a woman. Instead of what she deserves or demands you are always in a race to shatter her inner esteem. We live in a society where our people chant loud slogans of women empowerment, women’s rights , and same people take forefront in domestically violating them ,molesting them, we live in a society where a father could not hold himself from incestuous relationship with a minor daughter. We are the future of valley, were a lady has to think thousand times before boarding a public bus while the monsters and encroachers are desperately waiting for her to board it.
Our women folk is not safe anywhere, not in the houses, not in schools, not in colleges, not in public places, not in workplaces. Ours is the society in which even a girl of 3years is not safe anymore, she is not seen as a child anymore but a GIRL. She is been assaulted physically at that age when she even doesn’t know how the speak ,she doesn’t walk properly yet. She has not yet seen the world. She has just started to breathe in this choked world.
Where are those people who consider outfits a reason of such incidents?
What was the fault of a 3 year old kid?
Why is our so called society silent on this?
Where do there people come from who do such activities and those who shield them?
This is a shame for society.
Where is the conscience of people, instead of respecting her, protecting her you reward her with molestation. Is this what we call women empowerment?
“Remember O men you are the protectors of women” [Holy Quran]
O men, remember you are disrespecting that woman in whose name almighty has dedicated a chapter in the holy book “Quran”, “Surah Nissa”, You are molesting the same women underneath whose feet lies the key to paradise. She is the same woman who brought you this world, What do you reward her with?
What you find, what you ask
You’re a girl it’s not your task
Bound to others you ought to live
You belong to nowhere, you don’t owe a hive
You are the need of all, yet nobody needs you
Seek your place, and try to be real you
You the key to paradise, heaven beneath your feet
Respect your dignity and let others respect too”
She is not a commodity whom you can possess, she is not pleasurable stuff, she is not a slave, she is not a caretaker, she is not a burden , she is the peace of soul , the aroma of flowers , she is the light of paradise ,that enlightens your life.
Post graduate department of English University of Kashmir
Email:------darbaxila@gmail.com


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Legal Advisor: M.J. Hubi
Printed at: Abid Enterprizes, Zainkote Srinagar
Published from: Gulshanabad Chraresharief Budgam
RNI No.: JKENG/2010/33802
Office No’s: 0194-2451076, 9622924716 , 9419400056
Postal Regd No: SK/135/2010-2019
Administrative Office: Abi Guzer Srinagar

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