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Upbringing: The Important Task of Parents

January 13, 2021 | Shaheen Suhail

Ummah is in need of brave, knowledgeable, sincere, and loyal Muslim youth. Their unwavering efforts and dedications for the cause of Islam never needed as badly as it is today .

There are seven whom Allah will shade beneath the shade of His Throne on the day in which there will be no shade but His shade..(including) a youth who was raised upon the obedience to Allah.” (Part of a longer hadith reported by al-Bukhari (1423) and Muslim (1031)
But When we take a careful look at young people today , we find that they are religiously deviated, reckless, self-deluded, selfish in their conduct and ill-behaved, unwilling to accept the truth from others and hasten in spreading falsehood among the people. They are less committed and non-serious to their creator and often found to neglect obligations that are due to Allah or those that are due to human beings. They feel proud of their opinions and show less respect to the opinions of elders.

Allah Mentions in Quran

[They are] those whose effort is lost in worldly life, while they think that they are doing well in work) ( Qur’an 18: 104)
There are many causes for degradation among youths , one and important is lack of upbringing in their homes. We can understand this main cause called Coffee-table phenomenon .
There is chemical inside the human body called Serotonin ( purpose chemical). So what the parents are discussing on the dinner table , the child records it ,like the Kiramankatibeen and finally acts like same. And when the child watches in smart phone or TV , that this kind of men are hero , he /she again records.
At our dinner tables, it is being discussed that the hero is one who has money , what the child will do . He /she has no other option than to record it.
Why our youths have heard the name of Bill Gates, Elon musk, Jeff Bezos? Why not the name of Dr al_Mustafa who was even praised by Einstein on relativity theory. What is the status of thought in these people ,we don't care about it . Because our parents have only discussed the money on dinner_lunch table.
It is the sereton in which decides who is the hero , because it has recorded it well. It is this seretonin which deduces the Hero in status quo , otherwise there is line of big think tanks in contemporary world, but we only know the money holders.
If we look years ago, there was Kaarun , who was big money holder at that time, but none of the university at that time knocked his door for motivational lectures. There was entirely different situation because of reasonable training to children. But today Jackma , BillGates, etc are being invited instead of knowing they are dead-hearted, because one who doesn't recognize Creator is dead hearted.
Apart from money ,there is massive world where we have to develop our personalities. Educate people and youngsters is the main task for our elders and parents.
Purpose of life should higher than your life.
When at UHud , the rumour was top in town that Prophet (S A W) got martyrdom, the companions of prophet Muhammad ( S A W) inspite of this worst rumour raised the flag of Islam by this Intention that Prophet ( S A W) has done his work , Now it is our work to uplift the deen. So it was the clarity in their life purpose and training through prophet ( S A W) .
So, There is no way to wait for Shaheen e iqbal , if your discussion on dinner table is money . Try to change your behavior, especially mothers if you wanna see your child the bright star.
Till 14 years , he/ she is child ,after that he/she is full independent thinker. So till 14 years, you have to work hard on him/her to see bright next 60- 70 years.
When an eagle’s spirit awakens in youthful hearts,
It sees its luminous goal beyond the starry heavens.

 

Email:-suhailbashir360@gmail.com

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Upbringing: The Important Task of Parents

January 13, 2021 | Shaheen Suhail

Ummah is in need of brave, knowledgeable, sincere, and loyal Muslim youth. Their unwavering efforts and dedications for the cause of Islam never needed as badly as it is today .

There are seven whom Allah will shade beneath the shade of His Throne on the day in which there will be no shade but His shade..(including) a youth who was raised upon the obedience to Allah.” (Part of a longer hadith reported by al-Bukhari (1423) and Muslim (1031)
But When we take a careful look at young people today , we find that they are religiously deviated, reckless, self-deluded, selfish in their conduct and ill-behaved, unwilling to accept the truth from others and hasten in spreading falsehood among the people. They are less committed and non-serious to their creator and often found to neglect obligations that are due to Allah or those that are due to human beings. They feel proud of their opinions and show less respect to the opinions of elders.

Allah Mentions in Quran

[They are] those whose effort is lost in worldly life, while they think that they are doing well in work) ( Qur’an 18: 104)
There are many causes for degradation among youths , one and important is lack of upbringing in their homes. We can understand this main cause called Coffee-table phenomenon .
There is chemical inside the human body called Serotonin ( purpose chemical). So what the parents are discussing on the dinner table , the child records it ,like the Kiramankatibeen and finally acts like same. And when the child watches in smart phone or TV , that this kind of men are hero , he /she again records.
At our dinner tables, it is being discussed that the hero is one who has money , what the child will do . He /she has no other option than to record it.
Why our youths have heard the name of Bill Gates, Elon musk, Jeff Bezos? Why not the name of Dr al_Mustafa who was even praised by Einstein on relativity theory. What is the status of thought in these people ,we don't care about it . Because our parents have only discussed the money on dinner_lunch table.
It is the sereton in which decides who is the hero , because it has recorded it well. It is this seretonin which deduces the Hero in status quo , otherwise there is line of big think tanks in contemporary world, but we only know the money holders.
If we look years ago, there was Kaarun , who was big money holder at that time, but none of the university at that time knocked his door for motivational lectures. There was entirely different situation because of reasonable training to children. But today Jackma , BillGates, etc are being invited instead of knowing they are dead-hearted, because one who doesn't recognize Creator is dead hearted.
Apart from money ,there is massive world where we have to develop our personalities. Educate people and youngsters is the main task for our elders and parents.
Purpose of life should higher than your life.
When at UHud , the rumour was top in town that Prophet (S A W) got martyrdom, the companions of prophet Muhammad ( S A W) inspite of this worst rumour raised the flag of Islam by this Intention that Prophet ( S A W) has done his work , Now it is our work to uplift the deen. So it was the clarity in their life purpose and training through prophet ( S A W) .
So, There is no way to wait for Shaheen e iqbal , if your discussion on dinner table is money . Try to change your behavior, especially mothers if you wanna see your child the bright star.
Till 14 years , he/ she is child ,after that he/she is full independent thinker. So till 14 years, you have to work hard on him/her to see bright next 60- 70 years.
When an eagle’s spirit awakens in youthful hearts,
It sees its luminous goal beyond the starry heavens.

 

Email:-suhailbashir360@gmail.com


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Legal Advisor: M.J. Hubi
Printed at: Abid Enterprizes, Zainkote Srinagar
Published from: Gulshanabad Chraresharief Budgam
RNI No.: JKENG/2010/33802
Office No’s: 0194-2451076, 9622924716 , 9419400056
Postal Regd No: SK/135/2010-2019
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