On Women’s day, what is better than holding a pen to write about this bloom that ever blooms even at her worst? A woman is like a flower that blooms again and again. She may be fragile like the flower itself but her root is strong. She may get withered and crushed, still she revives again as a new bloom. The moment woman gives birth to a baby and almost dying with intense pain, even then she survives mostly and after all that pain, she still has the endless energy to look after her children. She nurtures the new born and looks after the rest too. Not only this pain, no matter what she faces she still takes up any challenge and fights till end. A woman takes endless pain be it mentally, emotionally or physically. In my write up I will love to compare woman with a lotus flower that grows even in mud but still blooms beautifully, so does a woman after tough marriages, tough motherhood and tough divorces, she keeps growing in all such circumstances. A young poetess puts it beautifully:

Mai sapno ki jageer mai soyee
Mai kudrat ka ek naaz hoon lougo
Mai pyaar ki hoon ek behti kashti
Mai duniya ka aagaaz hoon lougo
(Intiha Aafreen)

It will not be an exaggeration to say, A woman is an epitome of beauty, wisdom and care. Rather I would love to say, she is far more precious than any jewel or a pearl. Lord has created woman as a sign of beauty. She deserves a real respect for being woman. A woman in any form must be showered with respect and utmost care, be it a sister, mother or a wife or any other form. Messenger of Allah may peace be upon him said: Take my advice with regard to women: Act kindly towards women, for they were created from a rib, and the most crooked part of a rib is its uppermost. If you attempt to straighten; you will break it and if you leave it alone it will remain crooked; so, act kindly toward woman (Al-Bukhari and Muslim)
We should not confide women’s day on 8th of march only rather each day should be considered as a women’s day. Don’t hurt her, don’t abuse her, don’t mock her and above all don’t disrespect her. Although it is true men are the protectors and maintainers of women but this Holy verse is often misinterpreted with our false interpretations.it is not the degree of highness in superiority by beating, abusing, rebuking and insulting her all day but it is the degree of highness in responsibility. If I am not mistaken women are foolish to pretend, they are equal to men. They are far superior and always have been. If you will give her sperm, she will give you a baby. If you will give her house, she will give you a home. If you will give her smile, she will give you a heart. Woman is regarded as one of the most sensitive creation of God. I personally had realised it a year back how much sensitive woman is, in a kidding way once I told to one of my closest ally unintentionally that you are looking old fashioned in the dress you have worn there, she was not in speaking terms with me for more than four months I guess. Some other day I used word sapiosexual in our conversation that too resulted a communication breakdown for many days in between us, that day I realised to what extent a woman could get hurt when she is being humiliated horribly. You may have seen many a times women cry more frequently and for a larger duration of time than men at similar ages, the only reason behind this is her sensitiveness and extreme emotions.
The heart of woman is like a deep abyss at the bottom of which you will always find forgiveness. Don’t judge her greatness through a single attribute that she satisfies her partner on bed but at the same time she bestows his partner a state of ease during his grief by sharing his trouble. She is carrying society towards an excellence.
Wajood e zan say Hai tasveer e qayinaat mai rang
Isi kay soaz say Hai zindigay ka soz e darun
To conclude I would like to dedicate my write up to the adorable woman whom I know and she is none other than My single asset {My Mother}, the Noor of my eyes ,the summer of my winter heart and the centre of my universe.i would love to say her Mama you don’t need a day to commemorate nor the validation of the opinion of few you are complete in your own unique way. So, every day of my life is an international women’s day.

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