As we approach the joyous occasion of Eid after the holy month of Ramadan, it is essential to reflect on the true spirit of this celebration. Ramadan teaches us to control our personal feelings, maintain a peaceful atmosphere, remember our Creator at every step, help the needy, and follow the message of the Quran. It is a time to restrain from bad acts, exercise patience, and attain spiritual growth. However, the essence of these teachings can often be overshadowed by extravagant celebrations that contradict the values of Islam.

Eid is not merely a time for bursting firecrackers, prodigal spending, and forgetting the limits of decency. It is a time to embody the lessons learned during Ramadan and to celebrate with humility, gratitude, and a sense of responsibility. The true purpose of Eid is to be more devoted to spiritual attainment, promote coexistence, and foster a friendly atmosphere.

Reflection and Responsibility

On this auspicious day, we must remember the importance of maintaining the peaceful atmosphere we cultivated during Ramadan. Eid Salah, an additional prayer held in the largest congregation, emphasizes the unity and togetherness of the Muslim community. This day should be a reminder to keep our peers in mind while celebrating and to act in ways that promote harmony and respect.

Learning from Our Forefathers

Reflecting on the way our Aslaph and Buzurgan i Din celebrated Eid can provide valuable insights. Hazrat Ali (RA) and Hazrat Ghaus-ul-Azam (RA) emphasized simplicity and spiritual devotion during Eid. Their celebrations were marked by acts of kindness, humility, and a deep connection with Allah. They did not indulge in extravagance or actions that contradicted the teachings of Islam. Instead, they focused on prayers, charity, and spreading joy in meaningful ways.

Avoiding Extravagance and Tensions

It is crucial to avoid the extravagance and tensions that can sometimes arise during Eid celebrations. Engaging in activities that disrupt the peaceful atmosphere or cause unnecessary conflict goes against the teachings of Islam. Eid should be a time to strengthen bonds, support each other, and create a positive impact in our communities.

Promoting an Egalitarian Society

The principles of justice, compassion, and accountability that we uphold during Ramadan should extend into our Eid celebrations and beyond. Parents should continue to nurture their children with love and moral values. Children should honor and care for their parents. Teachers and students should maintain their respectful and dedicated relationships. Husbands and wives should uphold mutual respect and support. Traders and customers should engage in fair and honest dealings.
By doing so, we move towards creating a society where every individual is valued and no one feels cheated or deprived in any field of activities. In such a society, the emphasis is on collective well-being, where each person's happiness and success contribute to the greater .
To assess oneself and understand how our behavior influences the world around us, here's a gentle approach that can foster self-awareness and lead to positive change:

Reflect Daily

Spend a few quiet moments each day reflecting on your actions, words, and decisions. Ask yourself: Did my actions today bring kindness, understanding, or positivity to others?

Seek Feedback

Sometimes, others notice things we don't. Ask your family, friends, and colleagues for honest feedback about how you interact with them and the impact you have.

Empathy Check

Put yourself in the shoes of those you interact with. Consider their feelings, challenges, and perspectives. *Am I treating them with respect and understanding?

Community Involvement

Evaluate your contribution to society. Do you engage in acts that uplift your community, like volunteering, helping neighbors, or promoting harmony?

Behavioral Journaling

Keep a simple journal noting instances where you acted thoughtfully and where there’s room for growth. Over time, patterns will emerge to guide improvement.

Value Alignment

Identify core values that define a good life for you—such as kindness, honesty, patience—and measure your actions against these principles.

Celebrate the Small Wins

Recognize when you do something good, even if it’s as simple as helping someone carry groceries or offering a smile. Small gestures ripple far.
By consciously evaluating how we treat our loved ones, interact with strangers, and contribute to society, we become agents of change, inspiring others to create a world that's pleasant for all.
Take away is let's celebrate Eid, let's keep in mind the true purpose of this day. Let us honor the spirit of Ramadan by continuing to practice self-discipline, humility, and compassion. Let us celebrate in ways that promote spiritual growth, unity, and peace. By doing so, we can create a lasting positive impact and build a world where justice and compassion reign supreme.

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