Women are the architects of society, the nurturers of life, and the silent strength behind every great achievement. Their influence is woven into the fabric of civilization, from raising leaders to shaping communities. Allama Iqbal, the great philosopher-poet, beautifully encapsulates the essence of womanhood in his poetry:

"Wujood-e-zan se hai tasveer-e-kainaat mein rang
Isi ke saaz se hai zindagi ka soz-e-daroon
Sharf mein barh ke surayya se musht-e-khaak iski
Ke har sharf hai isi darj ka dar-e-maknoon
Mukalmaat-e-Falatun na likh saki lekin
Isi ke sholay se toota sharar-e-Falatun"
The existence of a woman adds color to the canvas of the universe.
She is akin to a melody whose tunes infuse inner warmth into life.
Though made from dust, she surpasses the stars in honor,
For every grace and nobility lies hidden within her essence.
Though she did not write Plato’s Dialogues,
It was her spark that kindled the genius of Plato.
In these profound lines, Iqbal celebrates the indispensable role of women. He emphasizes that a woman is not only a source of life’s inner energy but also a beacon of grace and honor. While she may not have written historical masterpieces, her influence resonates through her contribution to the greatness of others. A mother’s nurturing care, a wife’s unwavering support, and a daughter’s joy bring balance and purpose to life.

Empowerment Through Faith

Iqbal’s poetry calls upon women to recognize their potential while remaining rooted in faith. Women who adhere to the divine guidelines provided by Islam can excel in all spheres of life—be it education, family, or profession—without compromising their dignity and values.
Islamic teachings are renowned for their profound wisdom, addressing not only spiritual needs but also biological, emotional, and social well-being. One such directive is the rule permitting a woman only one marital relationship at a time. While rooted in divine guidance, this principle has found fascinating support in modern science, proving the depth and foresight of Islamic commandments.

A Scientific Revelation Sparks Faith

A compelling case involves a Jewish embryologist and theologian who embraced Islam after discovering the profound wisdom behind the Islamic injunction of iddah (waiting period). The Qur’an instructs divorced women:
"And divorced women shall wait [as regards their marriage] for three menstrual cycles."
(Al-Baqarah 2:228)
This seemingly simple command carries a wealth of biological significance. Intrigued by its implications, the scientist delved deeper, uncovering groundbreaking insights about DNA retention and its impact on women’s health.

The Wisdom of the Waiting Period

When a woman is in a marital relationship, her body absorbs genetic material from her partner, including proteins and DNA found in seminal fluid. Research reveals that this genetic material can linger in the body for a considerable time. If a woman remarries or engages in relations with another man too soon after a divorce or her husband’s death, the mixing of DNA from multiple partners can lead to:
Biological conflicts in her reproductive system.
Increased susceptibility to infections and illnesses.

Complications in Future Pregnancies

Studies show that the waiting period prescribed in Islam aligns perfectly with the natural cleansing process of the female body:
After the first menstrual cycle, 32–35% of the previous partner’s DNA is cleared.
By the second cycle, 67–72% is eliminated.
By the third cycle, 99.9% of the DNA is removed, leaving the body free from residual traces and ready for a new relationship.
This natural purification ensures that the woman’s reproductive system is biologically prepared, safeguarding her health and well-being.

A Comparative Study

The biological impact of multiple relationships was further validated through an American study comparing two communities:
African Muslim women, who typically have one spouse, were found to have DNA in their offspring matching a single partner.
Non-Muslim women, who often engaged in multiple relationships, showed traces of DNA from several partners in their bodies.
This stark difference highlighted the health risks and societal challenges stemming from casual relationships or polyandry, further reinforcing the wisdom of Islamic teachings.

The Case of Widows: Healing Through Extended Patience

In the case of widows, the Qur’an prescribes a slightly longer waiting period:
"And those of you who die and leave behind wives should keep themselves in waiting for four months and ten days." (Al-Baqarah 2:234)
This additional time accounts for emotional and psychological healing. Grief can slow down the body’s natural cleansing process, necessitating a longer period for the widow to regain physical and emotional equilibrium.

The Impact of Multiple Relationships

One striking anecdote from the Jewish scientist’s research involved testing the DNA profiles in his own family. Shockingly, his wife’s blood revealed traces of DNA from three different men, indicating infidelity. This discovery shattered his trust and prompted him to explore Islamic teachings. He later embraced Islam, recognizing its unmatched wisdom in safeguarding family sanctity, women’s purity, and societal harmony.

A Divine Framework for Human Harmony

The prohibition of multiple simultaneous marriages for women isn’t merely a restriction; it’s a protection. It safeguards women from health risks, emotional turmoil, and social stigma while fostering trust, loyalty, and stability within families. By ensuring that women have exclusive marital bonds, Islam upholds the integrity of relationships and strengthens the moral fabric of society.

A Testament to Divine Wisdom

The alignment of scientific discoveries with Islamic teachings serves as a powerful reminder of the Creator’s infinite knowledge. Commands that seemed purely spiritual centuries ago now reveal intricate layers of biological and social wisdom.
Islam’s guidance is not just about rules—it’s about harmony. It nurtures individuals, strengthens families, and builds societies on a foundation of respect, purity, and trust. The principle of one marriage for women is a shining example of this divine balance, where faith and science come together to affirm the perfection of Allah’s plan.
By adhering to these timeless teachings, humanity finds not just guidance but also protection, peace, and a path toward holistic well-being.
Women are the vibrant hues of life’s canvas, the melody that brings harmony to the universe. By embracing the values and guidance provided by Islam, women can continue to shape a world that reflects beauty, wisdom, and purpose.
Let us celebrate the essence of womanhood and strive to create a society where women are empowered through faith, wisdom, and dignity. Their influence, as Iqbal beautifully conveys, is the spark that ignites the brilliance of civilizations.

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