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How Family Issues Spoil a Child

November 14, 2023 | Uzma Jaleel

It is man who makes the house and the truth is that happiness and sorrow are part of man`s life. But there are some problems which are very common but have deep impact on human life like property issues, difference of ideology and opinion, sacrifice of someone. These words seem so simple, soft and easy but they contain poison. And when such problems arise the family members always try to justify themselves which leads to uproar and quarrels in the house. Escalation of conflict has a very negative impact on children`s lives. Especially when the children are directly targeted… when their freedom is restricted, when they tremble to express their views, when they are not even given an opportunity to speak for them-selves, when they are targeted even when they tell the truth. And when a child is exposed to such brutal violence this can damage him in various ways:

1. He does not like to sit with family and with people at all and always tries to run away from the place where he hears screams coming from the walls.
2. Lack of concentration towards studies.
3. Lack of sleep.
4. He becomes victim of pessimistic attitude.
5. He loses his competence and becomes emotional about everything
6. HE Becomes addicted to social media and finds it his best friend and just being attached to mobile phones deteriorates his health
And all this makes him forget the real purpose of life. He forgets to live a good and a prosperous life. And alas, a living warm-blooded man dies without being struck by the sword.
This is an alarming call for families and all parents who are involved in various baseless issues and are spoiling their good relationships and leaving a negative impact on their children as well. There is no doubt that we cannot stop the growing problems at home but we can find a better solution to all problems with mutual understanding and cooperation without paying attention to what others say because this is your family and your life. You are not responsible for keeping people happy.

 

Email:-----------uzmajaleel8@gmail.com

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How Family Issues Spoil a Child

November 14, 2023 | Uzma Jaleel

It is man who makes the house and the truth is that happiness and sorrow are part of man`s life. But there are some problems which are very common but have deep impact on human life like property issues, difference of ideology and opinion, sacrifice of someone. These words seem so simple, soft and easy but they contain poison. And when such problems arise the family members always try to justify themselves which leads to uproar and quarrels in the house. Escalation of conflict has a very negative impact on children`s lives. Especially when the children are directly targeted… when their freedom is restricted, when they tremble to express their views, when they are not even given an opportunity to speak for them-selves, when they are targeted even when they tell the truth. And when a child is exposed to such brutal violence this can damage him in various ways:

1. He does not like to sit with family and with people at all and always tries to run away from the place where he hears screams coming from the walls.
2. Lack of concentration towards studies.
3. Lack of sleep.
4. He becomes victim of pessimistic attitude.
5. He loses his competence and becomes emotional about everything
6. HE Becomes addicted to social media and finds it his best friend and just being attached to mobile phones deteriorates his health
And all this makes him forget the real purpose of life. He forgets to live a good and a prosperous life. And alas, a living warm-blooded man dies without being struck by the sword.
This is an alarming call for families and all parents who are involved in various baseless issues and are spoiling their good relationships and leaving a negative impact on their children as well. There is no doubt that we cannot stop the growing problems at home but we can find a better solution to all problems with mutual understanding and cooperation without paying attention to what others say because this is your family and your life. You are not responsible for keeping people happy.

 

Email:-----------uzmajaleel8@gmail.com


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