Mother plays a significant role in raising children. The hardships and sufferings a mother endures for her children cannot be counted. When the child comes into the world, this mother makes every arrangement for its upbringing. A mother can give a righteous and virtuous child to the society. Therefore, a Muslim has the right to choose a pious and pious woman for marriage, it is the right of a child. When the child is in the mother's womb, during these days she should stay away from forbidden things and should not eat forbidden food. This order is for the rest of her life. After that, when this child comes into the world, do not give him forbidden things even then.
There is an example in history that about Allama Iqbal's mother, Allama Iqbal's father used to do a profession that was linked to interest. And Allama Iqbal's mother did not like that job at all. So when Allama Iqbal was born, Allama Iqbal's mother did not breastfeed her son. So what did Allama Iqbal's mother do? Allama Iqbal's mother, who sell her ornaments and bought a goat and nourished Allama Iqbal with the milk of that goat .
Then Allah created a person like Allama Iqbal. O divine bird, death is good with this sustenance, "The sustenance from which comes the lack of flight.". Now when these children are two or three years old, especially those who are unfortunately given smartphones in the hands of young children today.
Which is a wrong way, which has a very bad effect on children. As a result, children become addicted to smartphones at an early age. A mother's role plays an important role in keeping children away from smartphones. The responsibility of the mother is also that when the child starts speaking, the word of Islam comes to his tongue first. He should be taught the basic teachings of Islam, Islamic manners, Islamic morals from the beginning. Practical. Whatever the parents do in the field, the same process will be copied and pasted. So when the parent himself is praying, speaking the truth, being honest, then its effects are set on the children, especially the mother when the mother is praying. So keep the child in front of him, when he constantly sees his mother doing something, this thing will remain in his mind. A child should be made brave, honest, pious, godly from the beginning.
Leave for school Therefore, the training to keep clean in a good manner should be done from childhood. From the beginning, the child should be taught the habit of working on his own. Some special rules and regulations of the house should be established which should be followed by each member of the house. Such as performing prayers on time, sleeping and waking up times, eating times, helping elders in small household chores, avoiding all the junk foods from the market etc. It will bring discipline in the children and they will be active all the time in life.
These things can be found only from the mother, the mother can make her child whatever she wants. Napoleon said "Give me good mothers and I will give you a great nation". A mother can play an important role in shaping the character of a child.A child is obliged to pray, to follow Quranic teachings, and to learn piety from the mother. Children are the most valuable asset a parent has. It is the mother's responsibility to train her children at every stage of life. Nowadays in our society where our youth have become victims of moral decay. Mothers have to play their role to keep an eye on their children all the time. We don't have to expect from schools that they will be trained there. Our educational institutions are not what they were before. In that case, we have to teach our children morals, how to live at home. It will come only then. Only when the mother works hard for him and the home training system can bring the children to the path of goodness in this corrupted environment. The example of the great mother of the Ummah is Hazrat Umm Salama, who was the mother of Hazrat Anas (RA).
Umm Salma wanted to make Hazrat Anas (RA) an excellent human being. He kept Hazrat Anas (RA) in the service of Hazrat Muhammad (PBUH). Hazrat Anas (r.a.) started living in the service of the Prophet (pbuh) and started learning about religion. Anas (R.A.) was the servant of the Prophet ? throughout his life. He performed his duties very well until his death. Sayyiduna Anas (RA) participated in almost all the battles. He participated in the Battle of Badr despite his young age. Hazrat Hajra, the mother of Hazrat Ismail (AS) is ready to sacrifice the great sacrifice, the father and the son, and the son to be sacrificed. It was the mother's training as Iqbal said "It was Faizan Nazar or the dignity of the school".
"Who taught Ishmael manners?" Hazrat Sheikh Abdul Qadir Jilani passed away as a great saint.
Who, through the training of his mother, spoke the truth in front of the leader of the robbers and enabled the robbers to repent in the court of Allah. He was trained by his mother that a son should always speak the truth whatever the circumstances. When he spoke the truth, it became a guide for robbers. The leader of the robbers said that he is telling the truth on the mother's advice. We have confessed to our Allah that we will do good deeds. And will stay away from bad deeds. Alas, we have become old, yet we have forgotten the confession we made to Allah, and this child who made a confession to his mother. Hazrat Syed Ahmad Shaheed (R-H) is a famous sage, he was a resident of Rae Bareilly. Your mother had trained you very well.
You were very virtuous, brave and fearless from childhood. He had a great love for Islam. You were always ready to speak about religion. Like her, Sir Syed's mother, Maulana Ilyas's mother. These are the great mothers who have trained their children and they have been an example for the Ummah. Not only from a religious point of view but also from a worldly point of view, if one can achieve something, the role of mother plays an important role.
Thomas Alva Edison was a crazy child whose mother made him the greatest genius of the century. Thomas Edison's school teacher said he was crazy, the schoolboys kicked him out of school.

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