Once upon a time I liked people with slow manners and sweet tones. I often envied such people's calmness and soft-spookiness.

And this is about those times when I never had any direct contact with such people.
You know that as you grow up, you inevitably have to meet a lot of people. We have to talk. One has to live together and then the secret is revealed to you that these words which are like honey are actually poison. Poison is also what we call "slow poison".
Let me tell you one thing, people with a rude, straightforward, open mouth look very bad, but they are not dangerous. They are what they express through their language. One can protect oneself from the blows of such people.
But how to protect yourself from these people who seem to care about you but actually stab you in the throat. You know their stab when the neck snaps and you're left to see what happened? how did it happen
There is a very famous saying in English
"A soft spoken manipulator is far more toxic than a rude honest person. In a chilly winter night, the latter may just provide a tiny shelter with a scorn face but you won't realize when the former feeds you poison in a warm soup. "
That is, a rude person on a winter night can give you a place to live with a bad mouth. But you can't imagine that a seemingly gentle person can poison you in hot soup.
To those to whom I am referring, a term is very commonly used:
"Soft Spoken Manipulator"

These individuals have certain symptoms that become noticeable over time.
They try to control your mind.
Your mind begins to accept that what they are saying is absolutely right and for my own good, but in reality it is to your detriment and their own good.
It will make you regret every time. You will try to do something good but still say you shouldn't have done it and you will feel guilty about how I really wish I hadn't done it.
They will never appreciate you. Even if you give your life for them, kill your heart, sacrifice your happiness, even then they will make you believe that you are not doing anything for them.
They will apparently take great care of you, but only as long as you remain their slave.
They want you to do everything by asking them. Do your standing, eating and drinking according to their wishes. If you ever try to eat something according to your wishes, they will worry that it is not good for your health. will go and eat the same thing sitting in front of you because it does not affect them.
It will make you feel like you have no common sense. So whatever you have to do, do it with their advice.
These people will do bad things themselves, but obviously they will do it because a lot of bad things have happened to them. They always become victims in their story.
One should get away from such dangerous people as soon as possible. It makes you self-doubt. Which makes you anxious. They go into depression because you can't complain to anyone about such people. Whoever you complain to, will in turn berate you because these people are so good. You will drive yourself crazy trying to prove these good people bad.
So protect yourself. Show him the No board at the same time if he tries to be more ciga than the mother. I don't talk about breaking the relationship, but I will definitely say that you must keep your distance.
Don't make yourself emotionally dependent on those people that while making you happy, you forget to be happy yourself.
On the contrary, pure and honest people are a blessing to people.
Soft and kind people bring a gentle warmth to the world around them. They are compassionate listeners, always ready to lend a helping hand or offer comforting words. Their kindness is genuine and rooted in empathy, making others feel valued and understood. Softness doesn’t mean weakness; it takes strength to be gentle in a sometimes harsh world. These individuals spread positivity, creating a ripple effect that encourages others to be kinder, too. Through their actions, they remind us that small acts of kindness can leave a lasting impact.

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