God has placed in the heart of man an excellent attribute and emotion, which we call love. And this is the attribute and emotion that connects people and empathizes with each other and shares their sorrows and joys. And this is one of the great blessings of nature that brings peace and contentment to human life as a whole and creates a sense of empathy. There is no obstacle to this love, nor does it see the color, nor can caste be an obstacle to it, nor can the high and low of the family stop it, nor can any kind of defence system stop it. However, this is the quality and emotion that is present in the natural system of man. Unfortunately, modern-day people have narrowed the broader meaning of this love to a limited meaning and call themselves civilized people. And young people have the biggest role to play in limiting the broader meaning of this love. Young people in modern society consider this love to be a self-made relationship between a boy and a girl. Unfortunately, the youth of this civilized age has made this love so short and meaningless that now the identity of this love has become something else. It seems that love is the only connection between boys and girls directly or by phone call or using various social media channels. It seems that love is just a fictitious relationship between a girl and a boy. Furthermore, it seems that love is only to be enjoyed in colleges and markets and restaurants and different places. At this age, hardly any girl or boy is away from this immoral and obscene act. This so-called love has badly affected our society. The youths are losing the ability to change the condition of the nation. Our society is losing young people who were determined to chanstate of the nation. 

Not only that, but now young people waste most of their precious time, sometimes on calls and sometimes on social media. Another disadvantage of this so-called love is that now young people find it difficult to spend time with their parents and bloody relationships ? Many young people waste their parents' hard-earned money in these obscene and illegal activities. One of the great disadvantages of this so-called love is that whoever commits it loses some moral qualities and distinctions to a great extent, and loses the distinction and treatment of talking to others. Not only that, but he considers others inferior and himself superior. And as a result of all this, this person eventually forgets the real purpose of life and finally makes these obscene acts and immoral acts the purpose of life. This so-called love also gave birth to various social crimes.
Many boys and girls ended their lives as a result of this meaningless act; Thus, it is also a big reason why young boys and girls prefer death to life. And so, the lack of ethics at the social level is increasing, and socially we are losing better qualities' day by day. We all now have a responsibility to do what we can to rid our society of these superstitions and so-called love. You have to keep your children away from this immoral way.
Parents should be concerned about the future of their children and along with modern education they should also train their children to be ethical and to be the best human beings. Most of the work in promoting this so-called love is being done by mobile phones nowadays.
Therefore, all parents should allow their children to use mobile phones only in their presence. At the same time, positive use of mobile phones should be emphasized. Similarly, teachers have a responsibility to educate their children in their institutions effectively to avoid such inappropriate and immoral activities. And efforts should be made to attract children to good qualities and attributes. And the biggest responsibility, in this case, lies with the youth. The youth should always keep in view the purpose of their life and consider whether we are on the right path or not. Are we fulfilling the requirements of the life given by Allah or not? Are we fulfilling the expectations of our parents or not and are we doing something good for society and above all we should realize that we are all accountable to Allah for this life?

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